Forgive and forget:
- When you forgive someone, you do that someone a favor.
- When you forget someone, you do yourself a favor.
Well, you can do both. It's a win win situation.
- Use fire to test gold
- Use gold to test women
- Use women to test men
- Use men to test gays
The first 3 years of marriage is critical. If you can make it, then your marriage would probably to last for a long time. Here is why:
- Year 1 (or first year of marriage): When you talk, she listens.
- Year 2: When she talks, you listen.
- Year 3: Both of you talk, and your neighbors will have to listen.
- Year 4: You will go out looking for someone listening to you.
When the earth was named, it wasn't named after any God. Because Earth was meant to be scientific studied and evolution processed.
- Elephants have never eaten any meat, yet they are strong and huge.
- Lions always eat meat all their lives. Yet they are not any "Brainier" than monkeys.
Therefore, it's an eating habit. Not that meat is any healthier than vegetables. No one dies or gets stupid from eating too much vegetables, yet there are problems and sicknesses came from eating lots of meat.
Points to Ponder,
A false sense of legality will change your life. When you are trying to do something, you will become someone. When you are trying to be/become someone, you will be that person's shadow.
Do not be fed up with the same one-sided world-view of Americans. People need to travel the world, read other cultural literatures, and watch more foreign movies in order to balance their thoughts.
Did primitive people have man vs woman love? If we live in a time and space where people have no sense of family or relationship obligation, and they can freely have sex to each other animal-wise. Then, does love have any meaning? does love stand its value? or had it ever been existed?
More about Love,
Men think, women feel
Men fall in love by women's look, that's why love at first sight. Women fall in love by men's talk.
The rich Republicans and rich Democrats vote to protect their wealth and power. The average Joe's vote because they are sold a dream and promises that poor people WANT to have.
If people vote for their NEEDS, then they can put a right person in the office.
What you see, hear, taste, touch and smell are limitted to the capabilities of your five senses. A pretty person is seen and thought differently from an average looking person. A nice voice is heard and agreed more easily than a whiny expression; that's why honey attracts more flies than vinegar. The English idiom "don't judge a book by its cover" reminds us to be aware of prejudging the worth of surface. However, more often than not we are depending heavily on our senses to explain the things we know not and understand not.
People fill in the blanks with their imagination based on appearance, language ability or accent. Which is very closed to what it's called "prejudice".
Suicide is cowardly, but a cowardice will not kill oneself. Therefore, suicide is brave, but a brave one has courageous endurance to face life. Thus, suicide is cowardly or brave?
Equality, what equality!
It's All Lies, human nature is all about disequality and instability. Rich people think, eat, live and conduct their lives mostly different from poor people. White people are not the only racists on earth. Black, brown and yellow people are racists too.
Human and nature depend heavily on instability and disequality to evolve and develope. Do you really think if black people did not fight for their rights, then the white people would voluntarily hand to them the passport to do things freely? How about countries that had been colonized, did they get their freedom without shedding of blood on their own soil? When a rich kid does not know how to do something, then he has not been trained. But when a poor kid cannot perform the same task, then he is stupid. Is that what you define social equality?
When you are the only one with big guns, you want to control the world. You did not mind how many men you killed, and how many women you raped. But once everyone has guns like yours, then you want arms control to place restrictions on the usage of such weapons.
What would you prefer?
1. I don't know... Therefore, God.
2. I don't know... Therefore, I have to study it in order to understand the subject matter, and to better humanity probably.
2. God did not give us a pair of wings, because God does not want us to fly. Therefore, the invention of flying machines is a sin.
If English is your second language, and someone picks on your speaking in an ill manner intentionally, and if you know your opponent is not an English person (from England), then here is what you can do:
You ask: "You are speaking English so well. Are you from England?"
He/She: "No, I am American"
You: "Then why don't you speak American? Why do you have to speak English?"
He/She: "English is American language."
You: "No, you STUPID, English is the language of people from England. You are using it because you don't even have your own language. If the Japanese or the German had their way in history, then you would be speaking their language now."
- Who would bother to learn your language anyway?
You reply: "That is because we are peaceful people. Even back in the old day, if we had guns or fire arms, we would not go to other countries to rob their resources, killed their men and raped the women. That is one good reason why our language is not so popular."